So happy for you since your 「打擰」 seems like getting along very well with your parents.

I was educated overseas and my family is “modern” and ” finanically quite ok”, I would say. My boyfriend was brought up in a very traditional “finanically struggling” family and he respects his parents very much. He does not voice out even he disagrees with his parents. He is always a lovely obedient little child ( he is over age 35) !!

On the other hand, my parents dislike him since they always think that I will not suit into his family after marriage and thinking that we are wasting each other time. I will definiely “downgrade” my living standard after marriage since he has to support his family in terms of $$.

Do you think that the family background difference can be overcome ? I know I love him but the background difference is always the “fighting” point for us. Sigh !!