Comments on: 噪音 http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/ Wed, 01 Nov 2017 10:54:23 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=3.9.40 By: Ar fei http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/#comment-4815 Sun, 23 Oct 2011 14:17:17 +0000 http://vipblog.sundaymore.com/winnieleung/?p=9924#comment-4815 Thankyou Everyone ~

TW : 作為男人, 至現時為止, to love and to cherish並不是我自己能夠控制的, 我想她們來自另一半, 這樣來說, 對方的承諾會不會實現, 其實取決於自己嗎 ??

至於 :
better or for worse
for richer or for poorer
in sickness and in health
她們都可以在一些好人身上找得到呢 ~ 她們又在我和在座閣下身上找到多少呢 ??
我知道我要的女人不止於此

deedee : yes i’m not enjoy the process , 不過應承左 , 就要做到為止 (我這樣想正確嗎??)
but the big big problem is : 好多時我自己都唔知自己做緊咩 , 當我遇到這問題時 , 我現在再想想 , 我是沒有勇氣或膽量去做改變 — 回想以前 , 真的有段時間是天不怕地不怕的 , 我怕什麼!!!
In my humble opinion , You are quite wisdom ^^”

winnieleung : 我沒怎麼想過現在的我, 是個怎樣的人 , 要找到答案 , 就要鑽進更深入 , 更深入的我之中 .
本書對現在的我不太用得着 , 所以Feedback唔比你住喇(奸笑) , 我要搞掂內在先 , 表現出來的 , 我和身邊的人都接受 .

Thankyou for helping me think ~

]]> By: TW http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/#comment-4814 Sun, 23 Oct 2011 02:46:05 +0000 http://vipblog.sundaymore.com/winnieleung/?p=9924#comment-4814 Ar Fei, 作為女人，我只在乎一個承諾，就是 the wedding vow, “I, take you to be my wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part. ”
只要個大家有這樣的心，就知道應怎樣做，其他一些物質上的承諾，只是形式。

]]> By: deedee http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/#comment-4813 Sat, 22 Oct 2011 22:20:19 +0000 http://vipblog.sundaymore.com/winnieleung/?p=9924#comment-4813 Winnie, I struggle with that ‘marry up’ question myself also.

Ar Fei, depends on your motivation to 兌現承諾, if it is only as a sense of obligation to others, and you do not enjoy the process, it is one-way energy expense, then of course you will not find new 兌現的力量. I feel sorry to see people who spend their life time fulfilling obligation to others, and lost themselves through the process…In my humble opinion, you are the only person who knows why you have to 兌現承諾, whatever the reason, you must feel good doing it, do not do it just for the sake of 承諾.

]]> By: winnieleung http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/#comment-4812 Sat, 22 Oct 2011 16:59:31 +0000 http://vipblog.sundaymore.com/winnieleung/?p=9924#comment-4812 Ar fei: 跟男人女人無mud 關係。跟你是個點樣的人有關係多D囉！你問我啊？答案在你那裡。

]]> By: winnieleung http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/#comment-4811 Sat, 22 Oct 2011 16:58:21 +0000 http://vipblog.sundaymore.com/winnieleung/?p=9924#comment-4811 TW: 生活水平可以維持到差不多當然great 啦！我估我聽過比較難搞是那些生活水平差太遠，然後另一方會覺得很吃力／自卑 whatever，還要覺得個女的 expenses 很可怕。

]]> By: winnieleung http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/#comment-4810 Sat, 22 Oct 2011 16:56:03 +0000 http://vipblog.sundaymore.com/winnieleung/?p=9924#comment-4810 deedee: totally with you about promise and receiving, man or woman. great point! about ‘marry up’ to a man, it really depends what that person is looking for or can live with. it’s like asking must a lady find a guy taller than her or not … :)

]]> By: TW http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/#comment-4809 Sat, 22 Oct 2011 15:29:36 +0000 http://vipblog.sundaymore.com/winnieleung/?p=9924#comment-4809 我身邊很多女性朋友包括自己收入都比另一半高，又不大問題喎。我覺最緊要大家維持到同一生活水平就冇問題，例如搵十萬vs二十萬。但如要就另一半降低生活水平就難dd, 例如搵二萬vs四萬。

]]> By: deedee http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/#comment-4808 Sat, 22 Oct 2011 14:32:41 +0000 http://vipblog.sundaymore.com/winnieleung/?p=9924#comment-4808 A relationship, should be bi-directional. Not just a man promise a woman something, and the lady just on the receiving side. It is unrealistic to say grand things like ‘ I promise to be a VP next year, or, promise to have enough down payment for a 1000 sq ft apartment…’ I think a more reasonable promise is ‘ I will do my best at my job, at saving money, my target is xxx … ‘, keep the communication channel open during the whole time. If you think ‘doing the best from where ever you are and eventually arriving at a better position’ is not acceptable, do not stay in the relationship and then blame the other party. Besides, must a lady ‘marry up’ to a man??? Just a question.

]]> By: Ar fei http://winnieleung.hk/%e5%99%aa%e9%9f%b3/#comment-4807 Fri, 21 Oct 2011 15:15:49 +0000 http://vipblog.sundaymore.com/winnieleung/?p=9924#comment-4807 我是男人, 我也承諾過做不到的事, 我想兌現, 我該如何做??
我欠缺什麼?? 我找不到兌現的力量
我該如何維持??

承諾是以什麼來支撐??

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